.:: All about 'MEN' ::.

If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.
If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.
Stop making excuses for a man and his behaviour.
Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from
heartache.

Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship
that's not
meant to be.
Slower is better. Never live your life for a man
before you find
what makes you truly happy.

If a relationship ends because the man was not
treating you as
you deserve then heck no, you can't "be friends".
A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend.
Don't settle.

If you
feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably
is. Don't stay because you think "it will get better."

You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying
when things
are not better.
The only person you can control in a relationship is
you.

Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of
different
women.
He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, why
would he
treat you any differently?

Always have your own set of friends separate from his.
Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If
something
bothers you, speak up.

Never let a man know everything.
* He will use it against you later.

You cannot change a man's behaviour.
* Change comes from within.

Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you
are...
even if he has more education or in a better job.
Do not make him into a quasi-god.
He is a man, nothing more nothing less.
Never let a man define who
you are.
Never borrow someone else's man.
If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.
A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to
treat you.

All men are NOT dogs.

You should not be the one doing all the
bending...compromise is
two way street.

You need time to heal between relationships...there is
nothing
cute about baggage... deal with your issues before
pursuing a new
relationship

You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a
relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals...look
for someone
complimentary...not supplementary.

Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr.
Right.

Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know
where you
are, and you're always readily available to him - he
takes it for granted.

Never move into his mother's house. Never co-sign for
a man.

Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you
everything that
you need.* Keep him
in your radar but get to know others.

Share this with other women and men (just so they
know)...
You'll make someone smile, another rethink her
choices, and another woman
prepare.

They say it takes a minute to find a special person,
an hour to appreciate them, a day to love them and
an entire lifetime to forget them.


Advice from Angel,

Scared of being alone is what makes a lot of women
stay in
relationships that are abusive or hurtful : DrPhill

You should know that you're the best thing that could
ever
happen to anyone and if a man mistreats you, he'll
miss out on a good thing.
If he was attracted to you in the 1st place, just know
that he's not the
only one. They're all watching you, so you have a lot
of choices. Make the
right one.